Christmas in August

Some of you may remember how I posted back in December that there was a Christmas miracle upon us.  Baby Girl was showing signs of an interest in being potty trained at about 23 months.  No such miracle.  But I have to say (and I hope it's not too early) that in the last 48 hours my miracle has arrived.  About 3 weeks ago when there was nothing happening on our calendar I broke out the training pants and the butterscotch chips and let Baby Girl soil herself repeatedly.  After a few days of this nonsense she asked to be put back in a diaper and I gladly consented remembering how much I hate potty training.  Then we went to NYC and forgot about the whole messy business.  

Can I just say that my biggest piece of advise when potty training is to forget about the whole thing and let the horse lead itself to water so to speak?  You can bang your head against the wall in frustration if you want to but that kinda hurts.  Two weeks ago I was looking for a new motivator because butterscotch chips had run their coarse.  I printed out a chart and searched for stickers to put on it.  When I presented the idea to Baby Girl she screamed at me and said she hated it!  Clearly not wanting to be told when she would do this thingy.  So I wisely backed off.  Then a few days later I found some shiny star stickers.  I knew better than to push still.  When she saw them I could see the wheels turning in her head.  Still I waited a day.  Pretending not to care.  It reminds me of long ago with another child, how I would get my breast-fed baby to be interested in a bottle.  Try as I might to get him to take it from me he would boldly refuse!  Lay it on the ground for him to play with and walk away and before I knew it he would have it in his mouth for himself.  Kids are tricky little buggers!  

So about three days ago when she woke up she seemed to have a scathingly brilliant idea.  Her face lit up and she said "sticker chart!"  Well we've been all over it for 3 days with no accidents.  Day two when I went to put on a pull up for an outing (the pediatricians) she flatly refused and said she wanted to stay in her underwear.  I feared the worst and prepared thusly.  Not one accident!  And the other miracle that day was that she awoke dry as the Sahara!  Fluke- thought I.  This morning- same deal!  That is what I am on my knees thanking my lucky stars for today.  God does love me!  Then to make matters more miraculous is that when I left her in her diaper to take a morning walk with the dog I came back to put her on the toilet and she said she had already gone.... hmmm.... seriously!?  Evidence proved she was not lying.  She even solicited a 10 year old to re-diaper her before I got back.  I'd say its a done deal.  Maybe not, but it would appear so.  Kids grow up so fast these days!

Scrambled Violin

Our son has the opportunity this fall to pursue his violin training with a top-notch teacher.  Her standards are high and her 'tuition' is too.  Knowing my son as I do I was on the fence about what to do here.  Clearly he needs a teacher, but does it need to be the one that requires group, individual, and chamber lessons?  Solo recitals and something called a 'movement class' are also involved.  And did I mention there is no parking on her grass?  Well-there isn't.... It's a rule I can understand as I hate it when strangers park on my grass.  This just sets a standard of excellence though don't you think? Not sure I really want to know what the movement class is.  Maybe we could enroll the two year old in that class.  Although she did get a couple red stars on her potty chart for her movements as of late.  Perhaps a class isn't in order for her after all.

The policy on her website clearly states that if the student isn't practicing enough that she may have the option to drop said student.  Without refund! Ouch.  Big Boy is an excellent musician who has been at the violin for 6 years.  He has unfortunately been the victim of moving around and having various teachers.  Some suited him.  Some not so much.  This one appears to be a match.  After a week of scales camp he was still coming out smiling.  And I gotta say I never knew one could play that high on one's violin.  Lot's of difficulty.  Still smiling.  Sorta a miracle. I fear that after we sign him up that the honeymoon will end and he will not commit as much as we'd hoped.  But then there's the other side to that egg.  The sunny side!  That hopes against all odds that he will reach and exceed expectations.  And what to do with Little Boy who is just one year in?  Do we go for the good teacher right from the start with him and kick all the bad habits early?  (Those habits that Big Boy still clings to).  Or do we wait and see if he is a violinist after all before shelling out the big bucks?  It seems that the decisions made now will make the ones in the future as well.

T and I discussed it in bed the other night.  He told me the story of the day he went to a friend's house and was shown for the first time in his life how to scramble an egg.  Step one: Warm up the pan.  Step two: Spray the pan.  Step three: Crack egg directly onto the pan and scramble away while cooking.  Over a decade later he would learn the real way to cook scrambled eggs.  From me.  With actual pre-scrambling in a bowl, grated cheddar, constant spatula use, and dill.  (Yes dill- try it!).  So his point was that there is a right way and a getting by way of doing just   about all things in life.  Which way do you think we should go?

Looking Back at the Big Apple

So I am finally getting around to going through our photos of my trip to New York. So much to choose from. I will start of with two photos of T and I where we try to take the picture ourselves at arms length. I know this is just what you want to see when it comes to our trip... Well maybe not but I find them kinda funny/interesting. The first one is while we are seated in the theatre at Wicked. I think I am giving the camera my wicked look. Nice shot of the nose that a clumsy plastic surgeon (or was he an ENT?) told me he could fix for cheap if I was interested. Before that point I had no idea it needed fixing. It's followed me through life anyways. At least T looks pleasant enough.

Next you see us in the bright sunlight of central Park on our last day. I am looking pretty refreshed and T looks, well, concerned about something. Really he is much more handsome than this photo depicts. I may be in trouble for posting this, so don't be surprised if it's down later...

So enough of us, let's take a look at some shots of the city. There were sky scrapers....

There were constructions workers who called out "Welcome to New York!"

There were school children on field trips...

There was architecture and artwork.... (not sure what my mouth is doing).

There was a ferry ride...

And a beautiful lady of liberty....

A tired statue of Cleopatra and a tired Kelly at the museum...

As tiring as it was to be on the go for 4 days sight seeing, it was such a thrill to take it all in. I hope we get to do it again some time. We didn't even scratch the surface. The last time we got away just the two of us was when we went to Monticello about 7 years ago. Over brunch in NYC on the last day there, we discussed a future trip to Europe one day. We were eating at a place called Eruopa which seemed to start us on the topic of travel. T scrolled ahead on his iphone calendar to the year when Baby Girl will be 15 (I say we could go when she's 12 but whatever), and he put it down for springtime 2022. Trip to Europe... I hope it won't be that long before we escape as a couple again.

Ta' Mater

Well after months of patiently waiting our tomatoes are finally coming on.  Yeah!  It's the best part of summer for me.  So far I have made the following delicacies with our red beauties.  (And how sad is it that it took me 3 tries to spell beauties correctly- thank heavens for spell check and my porky pig spelling advantage).  I made Tortellini soup even though it was too hot for soup.  My husband came home very late and very hungry and told me it hit the spot.  It scored me some points- big time!  Then today I made tortilla wraps with spinach, basil from the garden and more tomatoes.  Dinner was grilled cheese with tomato.  Always better with tomato!  

I sent Middle Boy out to pick more this afternoon and lookie lookie what we had growing in our back yard.
 

Oh why is it that the fair entries are over for the year?  I could have won me some sweet moula with this mutant tomato!  It's like conjoined twins!  (Wow who knew I could spell conjoined on the first try?).  It reminds me of that movie Attack of the Killer Tomatoes.  I love the scene where the guy is sitting at a table in a quiet library and he looks up from his book with an evil grin and says out loud the word "tomatoes!"  and everyone runs and screams in horror.  I actually rented this movie thinking it would be great to expose my kids to this awesomely stupid cult classic.  Turns out it wasn't so good and even I couldn't sit all the way through it.  We've some a long ways in film making since 1978.  

Now I just know that tonight this tomato will haunt me in my dreams.  I better chop it up soon.  I'm thinking omlets with tomato for breakfast.  

Girl Time

Whenever there is an overnight scout thing and it's just us girls hanging out this is what we tend to do.  How do you like our color choices?  Bold no?  And yes I need to see someone about that bulging infected big toe.  But, like, I got better things to do.  For sure!  Girl Power!!

Big Girl is all glam

Have you ever seen cuter piggie toes than these?

Ode to TP

No not to toilet paper.  Although that is nice too.  Especially the Charmin.  Good stuff.  But this is an ode to my angel friend who has the initials TP.  We've been friends for over 10 years.  I have been blessed to have made friends that have lasted through multiple moves.  Some go back as far as kindergarten and we are still in touch.  TP used to babysit my kids and they always called her by both first and last names each time.  It was pretty funny.  She is truly talented with children.  Seemingly endless in the patience department.  Supportive when T was gone like crazy.  And she continued to support by suggesting that I leave my kids with her while T and I get a way to NY for a longish weekend to celebrate making it through the deployment.  

She not only watched my kids she entertained.  With swimming and outings and moon sand.  Moon sand people!
 She's like Mary fricken Poppins!  Practically perfect in every way.  And all I could manage to do in return in bring her garden tomatoes she didn't need, and a replica of an ancient magnetic cow from the art museum gift shop.  I'm pretty sure the ancient one was not magnetic.  Just being honest.

T and I did have a lovely time together without the kids.  Each time we saw a family with kids along we'd feel one of three emotions.  1-Wow this vacation really sucks for them. 2-Oh look at the cute curly headed girl.  I miss my baby.  Or 3- TP is basically going straight to heaven.  And it's so true!  She is always doing stuff for others.  We totally owe her.  Thanks TP!!!  We love you! 

*Update*  I forgot to mention one final act of kindness and love on her part.  She actually sent my kids bags home with clean laundry inside!  A girl who will do laundry for her friend is a true friend indeed!

New York: Day Two

My last conversation with Grandpa V before he passed was a bit strange. He has lost all of his senses at that point and kept repeating this line to me.

"A spoon and a fork and a bottle and a cork, and that's the way you spell New York."

"Really Grandpa? 'Cause I kinda thought New York was spelled N-E-W..." You get the idea.

He must have said it no less than 30 times in the two hour visit.

So I am still looking for the evidence of a spoon, fork, bottle, cork, or any alternate spellings of New York while T and I are on our get away. No dice so far. But perhaps on tomorrow's down town tour something will turn up.

Today's events included
1-Sleeping in!
2-A walk to the parking lot to get into the van and retrieve my sunglasses, book, and sunscreen. That was quite interesting as it involved a ride in a car elevator with a parking attendant and another car. Wacky!
3-Getting a on a bus touring up town with a spirited somewhat toothless guide named Pam. Pam told of the time when they drove past Yoko Ono getting into her car. We saw no celebs today unless you count the guy she called 'hot latin bald man' who periodically sticks his shirtless top outside the window with a bouquet of flowers and a pillow that says he loves us. His gestures of throwing kisses and gathering back our love into his chest were impressive. Too bad my camera wasn't at the ready there. I have been taking many photos but can't seem to download from our hotel room. So they will have to wait.
4- We ate a hot dog on the street
5-Went to the Guggenheim and Metropolitan Museum of Art which were both great and my bucket is indeed full!!!
6-Waited for 30 minutes in the hot sun for our red tour bus which was supposed to come around every 10 to 15 minutes.
7-Watched 4 blue tour busses go by while waiting in the hot sun. Not cool!
8-Went to dinner and a movie. I highly recommend Julie and Julia!
9-Tomorrow more touring and then West Side Story!

I am deliciously tired (something T's Granny used to say). So off to bed in the city that never sleeps.

Feeling Wicked

When I was a young mother I worked part time as a Dental Hygienist. One day when I came to pick up my young boy at the babysitters after work he and my friend's boy had been playing a newly invented game called 'wicked.' This game consisted of 2 four year olds running around with forks singing loudly "Time for wicked WICKED!" Fun times! Wicked has been mentioned over the years. The wicked chant has been sung on occasion. So you can understand how I could not resist sending my now 15 year old boy a text this evening at curtain time... "Time for Wicked WICKED!!" I sent. There was no reply. He doesn't find me as hilarious as I find myself I guess.

The show was just as fantastic as we had been told. No exaggerations here folks. I was moved to tears over their talents. I leapt to my feet at the end and clapped until my hands hurt. If you ever get a chance. Please go! We have tickets to West Side Story and I hope to get some to Billy Elliot but the chances are slim there according to the guy in times square today.

T and I had a most pleasurable day today. We walked and talked without interruption. That is if you don't count the 32 people on the street who tried to sell us tickets to a comedy show with the ever popular line of "Do you like comedy?" Psst...if you answer yes the next line is "want to buy tickets to a comedy show?" It made me laugh each time! We also ate great food and took a nap. All in a good days vacation friends!

Then big news (and I probably should have led with this-sorry) but we came THIS CLOSE to Glen Close. I over heard her say she had a 9:30 am meeting. T thinks she said 8:30. It's an ongoing debate. And now I am stuck trying to remember the movie she was in with Michael Douglas.... Where she played the crazy girlfriend! Argh! Oh well- Glen, if you read this could you call the Belvedere Hotel and leave word for me? Thanks!

Tuesday Ramble

Hello,

And a special hello to all my new local readers who I see have been dropping by frequently.  I hope to impress from here on out, but if I don't I am sure you can move on.

Today I am excited to be getting ready for a visit to the Big Apple with my sweetheart.  Sans les enfants!  For you non- Frenchies that means without the children.  I am practically giddy!  I hope the humidity dies down for us.  Yesterday was a big hot mess.  Ending in a thunderstorm that was threatening.  This morning when I got up, worked out (yes I did it today), and showered I was disheartened to find that even though I had dried off thoroughly (thanks for the tips Chaka), I still felt drops of sweat running down my back while making fried eggs for breakfast.  Not cool.  So I turned up the AC even though the most recent Pepco bill was through the roof.  I am no pioneer woman.  I gots ta get me some coolness!

So I have a doctor's appointment today, an overdue visit to the vet for the dog, and a primary music program to complete.  I am half way finished with that monkey on my back.  I have to finish before NYC or it will haunt me and prevent me from fully loving my husband like he deserves to be loved.  

By the way do you know that the key for me to having a good day is if I get the chance to make my bed in the morning or not.  Many things may interrupt, but if I can squeeze that one thing in, then the rest of the day is just brighter.  Counters being wiped down is a close second.  I know it's probably something I should seek therapy for, but for now I am just going to have my thyroid checked out.  Tootles!

Workin' Out

So if you have been reading my blog then you know that lately I have been working out.  Or at least trying to.  I get up and do my core fitness with Karen V about 3 times a week.  Sometimes I opt for a long walk with Abby (real name used!) the dog, or a family bike ride.  Believe me when I tell you that pulling a 6 year old and a 2 year old behind you in a go-bug, is in itself a work out.  We live in a neighborhood with hills and the other day I required assistance from Big Boy to get the the elementary school playground without dying.  

I try to get my work out in before the kids awaken.  Most times I make it the full 45 minutes before hearing Baby Girls cries of "MOM!  I awake!"  When I scoop her up from her crib trying not to wake up sleeping Big Girl across the room,  she pats my sweaty chest and says in the cutest way "you workin' out mom?"  "Yes, I workin' out"  I reply through heavy breathing.

The other day at bedtime I read to the girls from the rocking chair while they both lay in their beds.  Baby Girl was doing some interesting maneuvers with her bottom in the air.  "What are you doing?"  I asked.  "I workin' out!"  was her proud reply.  Maybe I should add a stink bug move into my routine.  It looked pretty fun. 

Today I stand exposed before you bloggers after trying to do some workin' out of a different sort.  Having said I was sorry both publicly and privately I now have to face the local readers at church today.  I will walk the plank from 1:00 to 4:00.  (Thank goodness I work with the children and I know they will still love me).  I thought about making myself a scarlet letter to wear but what letter?  B for blogger?  M for mean-spirited?  Perhaps H for human....  Maybe I should just go for a 'Kick Me' sign for all to see on my way up to lead the children in a song about reverence before the entire congregation.  Whatever it takes to make it to the higher road my friends.  

T says I should hold my head high.  None of us is perfect and I have said I am sorry.  I am not as sure of myself as he seems to be.  But I am sure as my emotional muscles rebuild themselves (will eating a banana help?)  I will find a way to work it out.