I was in charge of a relief society meeting this month. My area of focus was marital and family relations. I called upon LDS social services to recommend a therapist to speak to us. After a lot of phone tag and schedule re-arranging, I had a speaker. She did a great job. Since it was Halloween I tried to throw in a spooky theme. Some may have not appreciated my flyer, but overall I had a good response...
Relationships Can Be Scary!
Come to this month’s Relief Society meeting to keep things on the right track.
It was odd that a new family moved into the ward the same week as my announcement was posted all over the church with the last name of Adams.
So since our session with the marriage and family therapist we have a new way of speaking to one another in my home. We ask "may I have a discussion with you?" permission is (sometimes) granted, and then we proceed with "when you did _______ it made me feel_______" this is then repeated back by the listener. As cheesy as it might sound it has helped work out a few differences where I thought no resolution was in clear sight.
There is also the even funnier "may I show an appreciation for you?" "yes you may" "I admire your sense of style" or "I like the way you make dinner" etc etc. The problem with the wording of this one is that my smart alec son likes to say that 'sharing an appreciation' is sharing information about something monetary that has gone up in value recently. Cheeky!
So readers, may I share an appreciation with you? Thanks for reading and commenting on my slow moving blog. It makes me feel validated and listened to. Thank you!