T has been quite busy at work this month. November will be a welcome break. We even have a relative coming to spare us for an over-night-escape. We still need to plan where we will go, but it won't matter as long as we are alone and in love : ) And I truly love that man. I remember how I used to fret when he'd be gone for work too much, but now I seem to take it in stride knowing that at least when he is here, he is all here. He spends his time devoted to us, not sitting in front of the computer or the TV. It also helps knowing that he does not wish to be away. It's just as hard for him to be away from us as it is for me to fly solo when he isn't here. I wish I had learned this lesson back in residency. I would have been happier. Perhaps the deployment has helped me gain this mature perspective.
Middle Boy had a birthday on 10-10. He made me a list of things he wanted. He then rated the wanted items with a '1' or a '2' based on the amount of desire he had for said items. Here was his list... Psyche (season 5)-1, a set of nun chucks-2 (yeah right!), a cool ping pong paddle-1 (the boys are obsessed with this game lately), a Hollister sweatshirt-2, money-1, video game (Prince of Persia)-2, a cool tie-1 (this kid is into fashion), moccasins-1, head phones-2, paint ball gun-1 (another yeah right!). What can I say? The boy dreams big. Here are some photos of what he did score on his big 15 yr old day...
|A slick new paddle we'll call the Black Mambaaaaaa!|
|He loves Phyche... He also has brilliant powers of observation just like the main character from the sitcom.|
|Ah, the smell of money! He loves money too.|